Unbelievably Coarse

Of late, I've been a somewhat 'fence sitter' closet fan of Xiaxue, (haha especially since the test says I'm her)...going to her page whenever I feel bored, for the want of something to do when I'm waiting for my DOTA mates to log on. I'd read any updates, shrug, and go on with my business.

I've always been aware that Xiaxue has a faithful following of rabid fans who would jump to her defence, hurl themselves in front of her to catch that bullet. And I am also aware of the existence of people who don't like her, who dismiss her writings and stare disbelievingly at the 'Best Singapore Blog Award' badge she has emblazoned on her website. I know. I was one of them.

But what I do not understand is, the level to which the hate mail directed towards her stooped to. I mean, I don't even understand why it even exists in the first place; if these folk think that her writing or opinions suck, and that it is a total waste of time, why bother wasting time emailing her? Just close the bloody window and get on with it to other more pleasing sites.

These people who pen the hate mail are as confusing as girls. I don't understand how they can condemn a piece of writing as 'a waste of time' when they have very obviously 'wasted their time' reading it, and wasted even more time sending the email. If it's a waste of time, why even spend time reading the bloody thing in the first place?

These people are going to the blog and reading it for entertainment. Free entertainment. And rather than appreciate the mental effort required to put your thoughts to word, or think up interesting new stuff to post, they do the easiest thing and flame. Just like those who watch soccer and cuss at the players for fumbling the ball as if they could've done better. You think so easy, you blog and update everyday la...for a huge audience.

And the language. Ooohhh~...all the insults that are designed, intended to strike with sledgehammer-induced force. What's up with calling her ugly and asking someone to go and die just because they happen to entertain certain thoughts and happen to publish it on their blog?
For God's sake, she's just a 21 year old girl...would you use such language on any girl for that matter? If you don't like what she's writing, just go to another website and never come back again! Why the insults? They are unbelievably coarse, and if Xiaxue is a disgrace to all local girls, then surely these guys are a disgrace to all local guys; what other tag could you affix on a guy who goes up to a girl on the street and insults her after she'd voiced out her opinion, abeit loudly.
I mean, at the very most, most guys would mutter to themselves, or share their opinions regarding that loud mouthed girl, and then forget about it. Not march up to her and fuck her upside down. Hardly the behaviour of a gentleman.

Perhaps the other head is doing the thinking for these people; pictures of nude bodies tend to have that effect on us guys. And after looking at something that titillates them, it rouses their ire that someone else (another girl) claims that the specimen that made them as hard as a flag mast was not attractive, because it implies that they have no taste. And thus, all of these individuals turn around and say that this someone else is jealous, that she doesn't have the body yadda yadda. GeeZ.

If she was a really pretty babe, would there even be anyone flaming her? Sadly, its typical for some of our local guys to come out with all guns firing when the girl isn't attractive, but smooth it over when a more attractive girl happens to say the same thing. Excuses like 'her language is better' and 'the way she writes, her style better' or 'she doesn't stoop so low' will spring forth to justify the difference in treatment of the more ordinary looking girl compared to the jude one. But is there REALLY a difference in the 'writing style'?. What...are all you guys that handsome anyway?

Hello. I think SPG's body isn't all that great either. It's just that I haven't made mention of it here on my blog, simply because I didn't think it was worth mentioning. Heck, even Rockson thinks that her tits look like two mosquito bites. So..what are you waiting for? Come flame me la...I also don't have the body, I don't have big neh neh...I'm jealous...*rollseyes*

It's saddening. The level some of our local males have fallen to...insulting young girls. And looking at the level of English they employ, these are highly educated individuals. And to have some one who has been educated perpetuate in this kind of character assasination that is so uncalled for, just because she happens to be a normal looking lass with a fiery, opiniated writing style, is sad. Plain sad. All that education down the drain. What's the use, if you study so much but inside still like a 'jiao nang' (bird man).

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